Lesbian Sex Drives

A very common problem in lesbian relationships is when one partner has a different sexual drive or libido than the other. If one partner wants to have sex more than the other, it can seem like the relationship is off-balance and one partner has more control than the other. How do you handle this situation? I received a letter from a woman who has less of a sex drive than her partner. Here's what I had to say to Low Libido Lucy.