I am newly out and in a great relationship with a great girl. We are planning on moving in together and possibly even trying to have a baby. I really enjoy being with this girl - she is fun to be around and is very good to me. She can be a little controlling and has a jealous streak in her. But I am in love with her deeply.
I am also newly separated from my husband of 10 years and we have a four year old baby girl together. In the beginning - after I asked my husband to leave - I was ready to move on without him. It didn't bother me at all that he would call me crying and begging me to let him come home. I was finally happy that I took that step to be who I really was. But, now I lay in bed questioning if I should get back together with him.
Should I Go Back to Him?Here are some of the reasons for my questioning:
1. Our daughter talks about him all the time asking when daddy is coming home. That kills me!
2. I know that he loves me and has said that we could start all over fresh and he wouldn't hold anything Iíve done against me.
3. His mother tells me that she loves me and I know she wants me back in their lives.
I don't know what to do. I love my GF with all my heart and I feel like I have done the right thing for me (as far as being honest with myself with who I am). I am happy, very happy, with her, but it just tears at my heart strings when I hear my ex and ex Mother-in-law cry. What should I do? Go back to him and live life in denial or stay with my GF that I love to be with?