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It's True: Ellen and Portia Married

Tuesday August 19, 2008
They did it! Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi wed over the weekend in a ceremony officiated by self-help guru Dr. Wayne Dyer. Only 19 guests attended the wedding. "What can I say? I'm the luckiest girl in the world," Ellen DeGeneres said to People magazine. What do you have to say to Ellen and Portia? Comment below.

People magazine will have a cover story on the wedding in the issue that hits stands on Friday.
© Photo by Neilson Barnard/Getty Images

Comments
August 19, 2008 at 7:37 pm
(1) Lauren says:

Good for you! I dream everyday of getting that privilege. You both are amazing and I look up to your relationship. Ellen, you help everyone realize that we are just people too. We deserve our love to be recognized.

August 20, 2008 at 8:24 pm
(2) Dianne DeSha says:

Congratulations! :)

August 21, 2008 at 8:17 am
(3) Kelly Lawless says:

Thank you Ellen and Portia for standing up for what you believe in and fighting for your love for each other. I hope and pray that one day my girlfriend Shannon and I to can have that privilege. God bless you both and have a wonderful life together.

August 21, 2008 at 10:29 am
(4) Grisha Stewart in Seattle says:

Congratuations, ladies! It shouldn’t be strange or unusual that two adults in love can get married, but it is I. Our country. People who are out and wonderful, as you are, are the ones that brought about this change. Ellen, thank you for all that you have done to convince the world that gay people aren’t inherently evil, just by being your strong, witty self! I still remember where I was on the day you came out to the world. I wasn’t even sure I was a lesbian, yet, but some part of me must have known, because your coming out made a huge impact.

PS if you ever want a dog trainer on your show, or just need advice, give me a call. :) My site is DoggieZen.com

August 21, 2008 at 10:59 am
(5) Chris Generoso says:

LOOK AT YOU !!!!! Congratulations.

August 21, 2008 at 11:13 am
(6) Dianne says:

Congratulation to both of you. Hope one day my girl and I will be able to enjoy this memorable day. Love you Ellen. I enjoyed your show very much.

August 21, 2008 at 11:39 am
(7) Grisha Stewart says:

One more thing – it’s not luck, Ellen, you *earned* this and you deserve to be happy. We are all responsible for what we do in this world, and you have made great contributions at a tremendous personal sacrifice. I repeat, you *deserve* to be happy.

For the negative folks out there that may comment after me: could you, just this once, see that love is a good thing, and keep your angry comments to yourself?

August 21, 2008 at 11:48 am
(8) AF Heart says:

Congratulations. I am so happy for you both. We all need the reminder that couples do stay together and weather the rough spots. We should all celebrate Love more. Thank you for being beautiful genuine people and for sharing (even briefly) your joyous moment with all of us.

August 21, 2008 at 11:53 am
(9) Adele says:

You are BOTH lucky to have each other :) Congratulations on your marriage!!

August 21, 2008 at 12:52 pm
(10) Bertha says:

CONGRATULATIONS!!! have waited a long time to hear this,love u too and i wish u guys the best.

August 21, 2008 at 1:34 pm
(11) dot says:

Congratulations Ellen and Portia! My partner Krista, and I will be married on New Years Eve in Provincetown Masssachusetts, and will return to our home state- New York- where it will be legally recognized!

August 21, 2008 at 2:15 pm
(12) Amy & Amanda Bridges says:

Hey congratulations! Best of luck to you both!
As two of your greatest admirers, we hope that one day soon that all of the states will accept us all. We love you!!!

August 21, 2008 at 2:36 pm
(13) Barbara /Calamity Babs says:

YOU GO, girlfriend!!!! I’m SO happy for you and Portia! You make such a beautiful couple and I wish you all the best in life! You make all of us so happy watching you perform and so you should be happy also! I admire and envy you, and love you very much!

Congratulations!

XOXOXO Babs

August 21, 2008 at 2:53 pm
(14) Lisa says:

Congrats. I too dream of that happening to me and my girl someday. This shows that the world is changing for the better and accepting us all.

August 21, 2008 at 3:01 pm
(15) Puppylover says:

Congratulations! I’m so happy for you two and wish you all the best!I really hope that one day my girlfriend Alina and me will be able to finally marry, too.

August 21, 2008 at 3:34 pm
(16) Queen1833 says:

May your marriage be filled with love, respect and understanding. Love is a wonderful gift, and I’m happy the two of you are in love.

August 21, 2008 at 3:36 pm
(17) Shirley Rose says:

Congratulations to Ellen & Portia!
I wish them ALL the happines in the world!

August 21, 2008 at 3:43 pm
(18) jessica goode says:

Congratulations Ellen and Portia. I wish you both the best!

August 21, 2008 at 4:07 pm
(19) SANDRA FELDMAN says:

Congratulations. I think you both deserve the best life has to offer. I am especially proud of you both because you lead good normal healthy lives and show the world that we are just people after all. I try to watch the Ellen Show daily because she never uses blue material and does so much to help others. Also because she is too hot to touch and so darn funny to boot. xoxo Sandra LA

August 21, 2008 at 4:11 pm
(20) Colleen Fritze says:

Congrats..I see such a luminous light from the both of you… I am speechless. peace and love always, Colleen

August 21, 2008 at 4:12 pm
(21) Teresa says:

Congratulations Elen and Portia. I wish you the best and hope you realize just how lucky the two of you are to have found what I hope is true love. Ellen you are my hero for standing up for who you are. Ive only been “out” for 1 1/2 years and it is so dificult. Good luck!

August 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm
(22) carla and bridgette says:

Congratulations Ellen and Portia we hope you two the best.

August 21, 2008 at 5:52 pm
(23) Jessica Lynn says:

Thank you so much for standing up for what you believe, you have given me the courage to stand up tall and unafraid. You help people stand tall and help people see that we are people too. Congratualtions you’ve earned this! I dream everyday of getting that privilege.

August 21, 2008 at 8:55 pm
(24) Elena Bourgoin says:

Dear Ellen And Portia,
The best to both of you. L’amour c’est tres beau. You are a beautiful couple and I cried like a baby when I heard your annoucenment. I hope that there will be many more marriages.
God bless and all the best,
Elena and pets

August 21, 2008 at 9:55 pm
(25) Veronica says:

God, Portia looks hot as hell! Lucky Ellen alright!

August 22, 2008 at 12:11 am
(26) Helen says:

Congratulations! Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness.

Flying to the bookstore to get my copy of People magazine tomorrow :)

August 22, 2008 at 12:12 am
(27) MAVIS says:

CONGRATULATIONS TO ELLEN AND PORTIA. IT HAS BEEN A LONG WAIT FOR ALL OF YOU IN THE STATES, SO I’M REALLY HAPPY FOR EVERYBODY WHO IS TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THE NEW LAWS. MANY HAPPY YEARS AHEAD!!! TAKE CARE, MAVIS

August 22, 2008 at 12:47 am
(28) Rik says:

I’m very happy for Ellen. I hope she’s found happiness and that it’s permanent. I loved the wedding pictures. I thought they were a beautiful couple.

August 22, 2008 at 2:59 am
(29) Debbie says:

Congrats! Make it last forever.

August 22, 2008 at 6:19 am
(30) Smallmice (Sin) says:

Congratulation to both of u. :)
i only notice Ellen’s show whn i cant asleep one day middle of the night & jus browsing through the tv (im staying in Sgp) and found out bout tis show…is funny & continue to watch it whenever i can…
i hope my gf – Agnes wont still think tt marriage is nothing for lesbian couple.

August 22, 2008 at 8:40 pm
(31) Laura says:

Congratulations to you both!
Hope to follow in your footsteps in Iowa in a year!!

August 23, 2008 at 8:19 am
(32) Hillary says:

CONGRATS!!! My partner of 11 years, Stacy, and I got married in Provincetown, MA 2 weeks ago…and we are thrilled that it’s now recognized in NY. We’ve considered ourselves to have been married for the last 10 years…but the legal thing really does make it feel different!

August 23, 2008 at 2:09 pm
(33) Maureeln & Cheryl says:

Congrats!!!! We have come a long way. Never thought I live to see the day we can marry.
Ellen thank you for all your sacrifices to help pave the way.
We are also getting married Labor Day Weekend
in Niagara Falls Ontario. We had it planned before Calif. and Mass. became legal. What pleases us is how many of our family and friends are traveling to join us on our special day.
Who would have ever thought..
Have a happy life together!!!!! Thank You

August 23, 2008 at 3:26 pm
(34) Carol H. says:

Congratulations Ellen and Portia. I’m so happy for you Ellen. You’ve been through a lot in your adult life and finally, you’ve found your “soulmate” and…the love of your life.

August 23, 2008 at 5:07 pm
(35) jess says:

wow You go gurl….so proud o ya! its a great step that defines ur life and contradicts those out there who didn’t believe in your story.its a encouragement to so many women who wud luv to make this very symbolic step.
Congratulations !!!!!

August 23, 2008 at 5:23 pm
(36) Deloris Johnson says:

Congratulations and Best wishes to you both! Thank you for always being out there in front showing us all we can have the best life has to offer and not be ashamed for wanting that!

August 24, 2008 at 7:03 pm
(37) Jasmin says:

Hey Ellen and Portia CONGRATULATIONS to you both…Me and my.. well.. wife :) just got married on August 8th 2008(8-8-08) and know the excitment of it..I wish you both many years of Happiness and Love. You two are such Beautiful People and we are so happy for you. Congrats again.
Jasmin and Holly

August 26, 2008 at 4:19 pm
(38) Elaine says:

Congratulations you both look amazing.
Ellen you look totally amazing at 50……Madonna who? Your the one we should be aspiring (no not asprin!) to look like.
Keep Lucky girls xx

August 27, 2008 at 8:29 am
(39) joyce says:

Congratulations ellen and portia! I wish you both more love and happiness, i am so happy that you finally did it!

September 11, 2008 at 5:34 pm
(40) Daniela says:

I have a crush on Ellen because she’s super funny and I like her style. I’m happy she got married to her love. I wrote about her vegan wedding ceremony on my blog: http://catscows.blogspot.com/2008/09/ellens-vegan-wedding.html

September 21, 2008 at 4:59 pm
(41) Angele says:

First of all, hey Kathy. Thanks for the blog a few days ago.
I love Ellen. I watch her show like everyday! I was so happy when I heard about her and Portia getting married! Of course I heard her say it on her show…and the wedding was gorgeous. They are so adorable!

September 22, 2008 at 6:46 am
(42) WL says:

congrats! people should be able to be open about their sexual orientation. i didn’t and regretted the day i married my husband. i still can’t let him know about my true self. it’s too late as we had an autistic boy. i need him, he is like a friend only, i just can’t go on but had no choice.
so, learn from me… get out of your closet!
i am an asian, conservative and all… wish i could be an american or any place that allowed gay marriages.

so proud of ellen and portia. good for them. they had it all.. good life, jobs, nice house, got married… children some day??

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