I have a quick suggestion for a sexy Friday article. I have been hoping that someone would write a piece on cleaning up after sex. My girlfriend have been struggling with this issue for a while. I hate that after love-making I must get up to wash my hands and face and therefore miss out on precious post-sex cuddling (the best kind!). By the time I crawl back into bed after cleaning up my partner has already dozed off. My girlfriend complains of the same problem when I am the one on the receiving end. Sex is messy and I don't want to kiss my love with a face full of lady-juice! How do other lesbians deal with this issue?
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I hate the feeling of the “juices” afterwards and find it gross to kiss her after but she doesn’t seem to mind but I always have to shower right when I wake up.
I typed out the following comment before reading Kathy’s reply but I’m going to submit mine anyway.
The same as you would have music wine candles incense fruit have the other accessories. Put a soapy wash cloth beside the bed or use hand towelettes. You can even rinse and spit without getting out of bed. Put mouth wash & paper towels on the night stand and a waste container near the bed. Be prepared.
I’m alone on a Friday night and reading “face full of lady-juice!” made me laugh and sigh.
It doesnt bother me and my girlfriend(s) after having sex…we cuddle up and go to sleep..its mutual cuz we r covered in our fluids..shower afterwards..or just have more sex and then cuddle more…we should be comfortable cuz we enjoy each other company..and we should share..whether we’er eating drinking or kissing, or more
I’m with Robert on this one. Where’s the fun in jumping up and missing out on precious cuddle time? Personally I think there is no greater privilege in the world than cuddling up after sex, still covered in each other’s juices. Sex isn’t a very clean thing. For me, cuddling is part of sex. It”s not seperate from each other. Holding my girlfriend tightly after a hightened moment, both of us sweaty, panting and covered in each other’s juices. It’s pretty sexy. You should try it!
. Now fall asleep in each other’s arms, still dirty. You can worry about getting cleaned up when you wake up.
Kissing afterwards is the best!!!! My wifey and I love it! Although. I do have to get up and wipe myself as I dont want to get irriated from all the …moisture…
I always get up to wash my face too, but lucky for me my partner doesn’t sleep until she’s cleaned herself. So I give my face a quick splash in the sink, then bring toilet paper and wet wipes into the bedroom. If you don’t want to venture all the way to the bathroom, keeping these things by the bed is a good idea. Dry with the toilet paper, then refresh with the wet wipes, or perhaps a prepared wet face towel.
I’m in agreement with Robert and LadyMacBee…It is very sexy holding each other and falling asleep that way..Then once we both wake up we just shower together.
I agree with the last few readers. Cuddling after sex is so yummy. Who minds a little messiness? Cuddling is wonderful and worth wearing her yumminess.
i have the same problem after sex…i’m a first time lesbian with a experience partner and she tells me after awhile i get used to it!!!
Monk was a tv character with many phobias including constant hand wiping. Did anyone but me wonder how a guy like that could have sex with his wife? That guy wanted to wipe his hands after a handshake.
Spooning after making love is the best. Don’t mess up the moment by jumping out of bed to clean up. Your partner’s juices are the most intimate juices you can share with each other, so why rush and wipe them off?
I always have tissues, face wipes, and adult wipes in the night stand for easy and quick cleaning till the morning.
Usually we just ignore it because we want to cuddle to much. We usually cuddle for at least five minutes or so before getting up and cleaning. Or we keep a towel or damp/wet washcloth nearby… if we think of it.. we usually don’t. I figure I can deal with kissing her with my ‘juices’ all over her face if she goes down on me. If she goes through the ‘trouble’ of it, I can deal with a little messiness.
The juices and erotic smells are wondrous to cuddle up to. To know my woman tastes like me is just another turn on as tasting me is a turn on to her. No need to clean up…we just bask in our phermones mixed together and remember each moment we get together.
I would have to say to you. Try using baby wipes or use a wet towel and if you don’t like the smell try some aroma candles. I love the taste of my woman cum on my mouth. Would loving her cum taste on my mouth make me sick?