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Kathy's Lesbian Life Blog October 2006 Archive

By Kathy Belge, About.com Guide to Lesbian Life since 2003

Election 2006 for Gays and Lesbians

Tuesday October 31, 2006
Election Day is just one week away. This is an important year for gays and lesbians. Eight states (Arizona, Colorado, Idaho, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Virginia, and ... Read More

Gay and Lesbian Adoption Video

Monday October 30, 2006
One of the reasons some people in mainstream America are against gay marriage is because they say marriage is for procreation and providing a home for children. Well, gay ... Read More

Halloween for Lesbians

Saturday October 28, 2006
It's not too late to get a great Halloween costume. This year I'm going to dress up as a theater techie. I'll wear all black, have a tool ... Read More

Jackie Warner and Work Out to Return for Second Season

Thursday October 26, 2006
Bravo TV announced this week that it will run a second season of the popular Work Out show starring Jackie Warner as a top Hollywood personal trainer. The show will ... Read More

Catie Curtis Interview

Thursday October 26, 2006
Out lesbian Singer/Songwriter Catie Curtis released a new album, Long Night Moon recently. Catie Curtis is legally married to her wife in Massachusetts and they have two adopted children. ... Read More

New Jersey Court Backs Civil Unions, but not Marriage

Wednesday October 25, 2006
The New Jersey Supreme Court ruled today that gay and lesbian couples "must be afforded on equal terms the same rights and benefits enjoyed by opposite-sex couples under the civil ... Read More

Old Lesbian Organization: OLOC

Wednesday October 25, 2006
Last week I had the opportunity to visit with Alix Dobkin, a 66-year-old lesbian folksinger who is on the steering committee of Old Lesbians Organizing for Change: OLOC. OLOC ... Read More

Is Hillary Clinton a Lesbian?

Tuesday October 24, 2006
Is Senator Hillary Clinton from New York a lesbian? Her Republican opponent, John Spencer insinuated she is in an interview. According to The Advocate John Spencer was asked ... Read More

Melissa & Tammy have Twins

Sunday October 22, 2006
Melissa Etheridge and her wife Tammy Lynn Michaels announced that Tammy delivered twins on Tuesday October 17th. She delivered a boy named Miller Steven and a girl named Johnnie ... Read More

Why Be Out?

Friday October 20, 2006
I received this letter from Nicki and I thought I'd post it here and let you all comment. Hi, My name is Nicki. I'm 21-year-old lesbian from Nebraska. Now, my question is...Why ... Read More

Kaleena's Coming Out Story

Friday October 20, 2006
Kaleena writes, "It took me a long time to finally fully realize and come to terms with my sexuality. At age 22, I finally stated, "I am a lesbian." At ... Read More

Vita Sackville-West

Thursday October 19, 2006
Vita Sackville-West was an accomplished English poet and novelist. Although she was married, her most passionate relationships were with women. Vita Sackville-West had affairs with many women, including ... Read More

San Francisco for Lesbians

Wednesday October 18, 2006
San Francisco is one of my favorite places to visit. I go there one or two times a year, but I've rarely taken the time to be a "tourist" ... Read More

Straight & Married is the Minority

Tuesday October 17, 2006
Perhaps you've already seen this article. The New York Times has studied census statistics and for the first time straight married couples are in the minority. Only 49.7% ... Read More

Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin

Tuesday October 17, 2006
We really can't celebrate Gay & Lesbian History Month without including a feature about Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin. Del and Phyllis have been together since 1950. ... Read More

Coming Out to Your Husband

Sunday October 15, 2006
For a while there, men on the "down low," (married men having affairs with other men) was all the media rage. Now it seems the hot topic is lesbians ... Read More

So Natural, So Right: Myra's Coming Out Story

Saturday October 14, 2006
For many of you reading this, the Internet has been a safe place for you to question and explore your sexual orientation. You meet people in chat rooms or ... Read More

What to do if you are Outed

Friday October 13, 2006
Coming out of the closet as gay or lesbian should be a personal choice. Unfortunately, sometimes that choice is taken away from us when we are "outed" to someone ... Read More

Coming Out At Work

Thursday October 12, 2006
The decision to come out at work is an important one. On the one hand, you may feel that coming out will allow you to be more open with ... Read More

How to Come Out to Your Friends

Wednesday October 11, 2006
Today is National Coming Out Day. October 11th is a day set aside to encourage gays and lesbians who want to take their next step out of the closet ... Read More

Coming Out To Your Children

Tuesday October 10, 2006
If you're a lesbian or bisexual mom, at some point you're going to want to come out to your children. Whether you’ve had the children with a lesbian partner, ... Read More

Coming Out to Your Parents

Monday October 9, 2006
Wednesday, October 11th is National Coming Out Day. Here at Lesbian Life, we're celebrating National Coming Out Week. All week, we'll have articles and stories about coming out ... Read More

Nikki's Coming Out Story: But I'm a Cheerleader

Sunday October 8, 2006
Like many teenagers, Nikki was confused by her feelings for other girls. As a member of the cheerleading team, she wasn't sure who was safe to tell about her feelings. "Freshman ... Read More

Essence's Coming Out Story

Saturday October 7, 2006
As part of National Coming Out celebration, Essence shares her story of coming out to her father. "Today, is finally the day that I came out to my father...It's Father's Day, ... Read More

Audre Lorde: Black Feminist Lesbian Poet

Thursday October 5, 2006
As we continue to celebrate Gay and Lesbian History Month, I want to introduce you to another one of my heroes. Audre Lorde was a woman of words. ... Read More

Coming Out

Thursday October 5, 2006
October is a busy month. In addition to Halloween, October is also Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Lesbian & Gay History Month and National Coming Out ... Read More

Gay Does Not Equal Child Molester

Wednesday October 4, 2006
Congressman Mark Foley, who admitted to inappropriate and sexual email conversations with young boys who were hired as pages has gotten a lot of media attention. Unfortunately, the media ... Read More

Jane Addams: Mother of Modern Social Work

Wednesday October 4, 2006
October is Gay and Lesbian History Month. I will take the opportunity this month to educate you about some different lesbians in history. The first lesbian I will ... Read More

Can You Help My Lesbian Sex Life?

Tuesday October 3, 2006
Dear Kathy: My partner and I have been together for five years now. She goes to college fulltime and I work late nights. Her mother lives with us and she's never ... Read More

Lesbian Domestic Violence

Monday October 2, 2006
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I'd like to bring awareness to the fact that lesbians are often hidden victims of domestic violence. I once knew a young ... Read More

Top Lesbian Halloween Costumes

Sunday October 1, 2006
Here it is October. Pretty soon it will be Halloween. If you think Halloween is only for children, think again! I think Halloween is a favorite holiday for gays ... Read More
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