Just because lesbians have sex with other women does not mean they're immune to sex problems. Like straight people, lesbians can have sex problems too. But unlike straight ... Read More

Lisa Miller and Janet Jenkins, a lesbian couple from Virginia, fell in love and went, like many gay and lesbian couples, to Vermont to enter into a civil union. ... Read More

Where do you meet lesbians? When you're newly out, whether you're 17 or 57, how and where to meet lesbians can be a challenge. For example, here is ... Read More

What are some good places for lesbians to live and raise children? Here's a letter I received from Bobbi: "My partner and I have a seven year old son and we ... Read More

I haven't been to church in a long time. I grew up Catholic and I don't see any point in going to a church that flat-out says my love ... Read More

"Most lesbians I’ve asked will tell me they’ve ALWAYS known they were gay. Not so for me. My first crush was in first grade, Catholic school. He was an altar ... Read More

If there's one question I get asked more than anything, it's from people who want to know if they're lesbian or bisexual. For example Confused Teen says, I have certain ... Read More

Today I've got a ton of errands to run to get ready for the Thanksgiving visit with my family. I'm really looking forward to the time. All of ... Read More

What's going on these days? People are just jumping out of the closet left and right. First Lance Bass, then T.R. Knight and Neil Patrick Harris. Earlier ... Read More

I've been married for 14 years - unhappily so, but to date I've been able to cope. For more than 20 years I've been fighting this thoughts of feelings for ... Read More

The official holiday shopping season doesn't start until next week, but I caught a great sale and bought a Christmas present today. Do you know what you're getting for ... Read More

It's no secret that I'm a huge fan of women's basketball. I love the WNBA and I love the college game. I know a lot of other lesbians who ... Read More

"I came "out" to my husband at the age of 40, after 15 years of marriage...My husband was not surprised when I told him that I might be bi or ... Read More

Because I am so entrenched in the gay and lesbian community, sometimes I use words and terms that I assume people know the meaning of. Well, we all know what ... Read More

I made a new discovery today. An all-gay radio station. iGayRadio plays both signed and unsigned gay and lesbian recording artists. I tuned in this morning and heard ... Read More

It's cold and rainy here and I'm longing for the hot days of summer. This June I spent a hot and glorious day in Delores Park, helping out at ... Read More

Visit the Lesbian Life Forum and offer some words of advice to a young teen. Here's the message from Punk Pantha: There’s this girl I like. I know she’s gay. ... Read More

I would have thought we would be beyond this discussion by now. What causes someone to be a lesbian? I thought it was pretty clear that being a ... Read More

How did Arizona become the first and only state to defeat an anti-gay marriage amendment? I mean Arizona is not a hot-bed of liberalism. I was puzzled, so ... Read More

Did voters defeat an anti-gay ballot measure for the first time? Almost all the votes are counted and it looks like one state has defeated a ban on same-sex ... Read More

I feel for the gays and lesbians living in Jerusalem right now. Jerusalem's ultra-orthodox Jewish population has been rioting violently in protest of the Gay Pride Parade scheduled to ... Read More

I received this letter today and it has me puzzled. I am a straight man who met an attractive woman who wears a band on the largest finger of ... Read More

Dear Kathy I am a 34 year old lesbian and I just came across you page and I was checking out the lesbian movies you have listed and either I did ... Read More

I just wrote about the elections and the gay rights ballot measures in Colorado. Now it turns out, there’s allegations that the head of the National Association of Evangelicals, ... Read More

I get this question a lot. Lesbians write in and want to know how to please a butch lover. This is a letter I got today: I've never had ... Read More

Dear Kathy, I had a lesbian relationship about 5 years ago. My partner had sex with one man before she dated me. We had unprotected sex for a few ... Read More

Have you heard of Doria Roberts? Doria Roberts is an amazing singer/songwriter from Atlanta. She would probably be a household name by now, if she hadn't refused to go ... Read More