Dear Kathy I am a 47 year old female, widower with four children and I live in the Florida Keys. I know that I do not ever want another man as ... Read More

I get letters and emails from you all year with many varied and diverse questions about lesbian life. Some of you have health questions. Others want to know ... Read More

Sarah wrote to me with this dilemma: Throughout life, I knew I was bisexual. I have had relationships with both men and women and finally found the partner I was hoping ... Read More

Some people make New Year's resolutions. Instead, I set goals for myself. Every year, my partner and I set a few goals for ourselves, whether it be a ... Read More

Here's wishes for a Merry Christmas to all of you who celebrate that holiday. Nothing makes me happier than lesbians and the pets who share my life. That's ... Read More

These tips won't help you get through the Denver airport in a blizzard, but they make help you stay sane if you're going to see your family this Christmas or ... Read More

We all come out in different ways. That's why it's fun to share our coming out stories. Some people come out as teens, others when they are much ... Read More

Well, here's a big surprise. United States soldiers have more important things to worry about than whether there are gays or lesbians in their ranks. As a matter of ... Read More

2006 was a great year for me and not a bad one for lesbians in general. We won some political victories and we lost some. More than one ... Read More

How can I make my girlfriend orgasm? Do lesbians need to worry about safe sex? How do I use a dildo? Can lesbians get herpes? Can you ... Read More

US Weekly has an interview with Tammy Lynn Michaels and Melissa Etheridge, as well as exclusive pictures of their twin babies. Tammy wrote in her blog: "We had a ... Read More

New Jersey lawmakers were given a mandate from the State Supreme Court, give gay and lesbian couples the same rights and benefits as married heterosexual couples. The court made ... Read More

I just discovered a great blog: Mombian. Mombian: Sustenance for Lesbian Moms, is written by Dana Rudolph. Mombian is not your typical "mommy blog." She doesn't write ... Read More

I received this email this morning: I plan to ask my girlfriend to marry me this New Years. New Years we will be with all my close friends--I consider them family. I have ... Read More

One of my favorite parts of going to the Gay Games this past summer was all the great people I got to meet. I met athletes and fans from all ... Read More

Join this recent discussion on the Lesbian Life Forum: I am a lesbian. I am also a Christian. My inquiry is how other gays/lesbians, who are also Christians, deal with other ... Read More

Last year I published a list of who I thought were the hottest lesbians of 2005. But this year, I wanted to honor not just hot lesbians, but hot ... Read More

I wonder if having a granddaughter will soften Dick Cheney? The Vice President's lesbian daughter is expecting a child with her partner of 15 years Heather Poe. Dick ... Read More

If this book hadn't made the news by parents complaining about it, I probably never would have heard of it. And Tango Makes Three is a children's book based ... Read More

I must be at that age. It seems all of my friends are getting pregnant, are trying to get pregnant or already have children. Most of them used ... Read More

I love these people and I don't even know them. The New York Times has an article in this week's Style section about heterosexual couples who are waiting to ... Read More

Dear Kathy, My girlfriend has exes and friends that are interested in her sexually. They text and call her constantly and she doesn't think there is anything wrong with it...It's gotten ... Read More

South Africa became the fifth nation in the world and the first in Africa to legalize gay marriage on November 30th, 2006. South Africa's ruling comes as a surprise ... Read More

December 1st is World AIDS Day. Today we'll hear a lot about AIDS in gay men and AIDS in Africa. We'll hear speeches about condom use and access ... Read More