Boo! What do you do when Halloween falls in the middle of the week? Some of you will go to parties, but others are still recovering from ... Read More

I don't have children, and have never really wanted them. I don't know what would have happened if my partner had wanted to have a child. Would we ... Read More

I saw a great concert last night. Out lesbian musician Catie Curtis played at one of my favorite live music venues. And although there were plenty of lesbians ... Read More

It's Friday and as you regulars know, I often like to share new lesbian jokes on Fridays. This week's jokes come from C.J. I can't help but think ... Read More

Presidential candidate Barack Obama doesn't seem to be backing away from his decision to include "ex-gay" preacher and gospel singer Donnie McClurkin from a series of gospel concerts in the ... Read More

With Halloween just around the corner, some of you may be thinking of dressing in drag or as a drag king. Or maybe you're interested in spicing up your sex ... Read More

Have you seen Exes and Ohs on Logo yet? It's the new lesbian sit-com created by and starring Michelle Paradise. Although I've only seen three episodes, I am ... Read More

People write into the Lesbian Life Lounge all the time asking for help with relationships, coming out and other personal issues. But the Lounge can also be a good ... Read More

Ron Paul's presidential bid is getting a lot of attention. He's a republican who has won the hearts of libertarians and many of those opposed to the Iraq war. ... Read More

There are only a handful of countries around the world where gay marriage is legal. South Africa is one such nation. Today we have a very sweet love ... Read More

I like it when I'm pleasantly surprised by something. I admit, I had The Gymnast around for a while before I watched it. It looked a little too ... Read More

I'm getting scared. Halloween is only a few weeks away and I have no idea what I'm going to do this year. Maybe I'll dress as Ellen and hold ... Read More

I'm finding a bit of irony in Ellen's latest woes with the media. Seems Ellen and Portia adopted a dog from a rescue organization. Ellen paid to have ... Read More

There's a certain kind of book that I like to read. One where you can relate to the characters, even if they're nothing like you. One with a ... Read More

My relationship of five years is coming to an end. I’m the one who called it off. Me and my partner are always fighting. I found out that she has ... Read More

Like so many of us, Dinelle didn't realize she was a lesbian until someone practically hit her over the head with it. Actually it was her first girlfriend who, ... Read More

From the Lesbian Life Forum: I'm 26 and have been with my girlfriend for almost seven years. In that seven years we have had some problems, mainly with her cheating on ... Read More

Earlier this year Oregon passed two monumental gay rights bills. The first would grant gay and lesbian couples domestic partnerships, which will afford them all the state rights as ... Read More

Last year on National Coming Out Day, I received the following email: I am the receptionist at a massage school. I called around to all of the departments in our ... Read More

National Coming Out Day is tomorrow. Traditionally National Coming Out Day can be used as a vehicle for people to take their next step in the coming out process. But ... Read More

As National Coming Out Day nears on October 11th, I want to acknowledge that all of you are probably at different stages of coming out. Some of you reading ... Read More

National Coming Out Day is this Thursday, October 11th. National Coming Out Day was started in 1988, the one year anniversary of a national march for gay and lesbian ... Read More

Recent Lesbian Life Discussions: I am looking for advice from people who have been cheated on and the relationship has survived?? Do you ever regain the trust?? Are ... Read More

I can't believe one of the most outspoken advocates of the gay community was gay bashed on Friday night. My friend Ramone, who writes the Gay Life page on ... Read More

Breast Cancer. It seems like every year, a friend or family member is diagnosed. My best friend, my sister, my sister-in-law. October is breast cancer awareness month, but how ... Read More

This Lesbian Life website is for you: lesbians, bisexuals, people questioning their sexuality and friends and family of lesbians. I love hearing from you. This is a place where ... Read More

Anyone who doesn't believe gays and lesbians are discriminated against needs to read these two stories. Both of them broke my heart. Imagine taking your family on a long-deserved vacation. ... Read More

Over the weekend I was cleaning out my email in box and I found this lovely story from Laura and Kelli. Laura and Kelli shared their wedding story with ... Read More

Last week we celebrated the Senate's passing of the Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Act. Make sure you thank your Senators if they voted for passage. But today, members of ... Read More