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Kathy's Lesbian Life Blog January 2008 Archive

By Kathy Belge, About.com Guide to Lesbian Life since 2003

My Straight Friend Has A Crush on Me

Thursday January 31, 2008
I am 20 years old and have been out of the closet since I was 13. I am a very strong and open lesbian in my small town. Just recently ... Read More

2008 Presidential Campaign Update

Wednesday January 30, 2008
The front runners in both the Democratic and Republican presidential races are starting to emerge. John McCain won heartily in Florida's Republican primary. Hillary Clinton won the Democratic primary in ... Read More

How to Break-up with a Girlfriend

Tuesday January 29, 2008
Break-ups are never easy. But they don't have to be dramatic and mean. If you're in a relationship and you know that it's run its course, breaking up seems like ... Read More

L Word 504 Recap

Monday January 28, 2008
Jenny is holding auditions for Lez Girls. Everyone really likes one actor, Nikki Stevens. Everyone except Jenny. Jenny likes some other girl who’s all weird and intense and whatnot. She ... Read More

Happy Birthday Ellen DeGeneres

Saturday January 26, 2008
Ellen DeGeneres turns 50 today. I sure hope I look as good and have as much energy as she does at 50! Ellen is a great role model for our ... Read More

Am I a Lesbian?

Friday January 25, 2008
I am having a big issue around if I am a lesbian or not. I believe I am for many reasons. I have done the whole thing of having boyfriends ... Read More

L Word 503 Recap

Thursday January 24, 2008
Charlie's Angels The third episode opens with a wonderfully fun vignette of Shane, Alice and Helena acting out Charlie’s Angels. They must have had so much fun filming this. I rewound ... Read More

The Effect of Don't Ask, Don't Tell on Children

Tuesday January 22, 2008
The military's policy of not allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly in the armed forces certainly has an effect on the soldiers. They are often forced to lie about ... Read More

Martin Luther King and the GLBT Community

Monday January 21, 2008
Every year on Martin Luther King Day, I like to run this essay, which was written by a friend of mine. Although we can't know how or to what degree ... Read More

First Black Lesbian Mayor Elected

Monday January 21, 2008
Cambridge, Mass. will have the first Black lesbian mayor in the country. Denise Simmons was an out lesbian city council member when she was appointed as mayor. In Cambridge, ... Read More

Laurel Holloman: Bisexual Actress

Friday January 18, 2008
Does life imitate art? It seems to be the case for Laurel Holloman, who plays Tina on The L Word. First, there's the bisexual thing. Both Laurel Holloman and ... Read More

Buddy G. My Two Moms and Me

Wednesday January 16, 2008
I remember back in the 1990s when a book called Heather has Two Mommies came out. The book was ground breaking, in that it was a children's book that dealt ... Read More

Dad Distressed about Daughter being Gay

Tuesday January 15, 2008
We are the parents of a 15 Yrs old daughter and she has recently told us that she is gay. In a million years we would never imagined this coming. ... Read More

L Word 502 Recap

Monday January 14, 2008
Tina and Jenny are meeting with the director of Lez Girls and he wants more lesbian sex. Bette & Shane. Put them together. No, that would never happen. Then ... Read More

Help! My Girlfriend is in the Closet

Friday January 11, 2008
I have been with my current girlfriend for the last year. We've been best friends for three years. I have always been comfortable with my sexuality, and been pretty open ... Read More

Safe Sex for Lesbians

Thursday January 10, 2008
My name is Sonya. My 15-year-old daughter is sure she is at least bi, if not gay. As her family we have no problem with that except ... Read More

Hillary wins New Hampshire

Wednesday January 9, 2008

Ten Reasons Why Gay Marriage is Wrong

Wednesday January 9, 2008
Thanks to Jackie for this joke. My favorite is number 2: "Gay marriage will encourage people to be gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people will make ... Read More

L Word 501: Season 5 Premiere Recap

Tuesday January 8, 2008
Jenny Lives Jenny floated off on a raft at the end of last season and we didn’t know if we’d ever see her again. But she’s back. And apparently the writers ... Read More

L Word Season 5 Begins Tonight

Sunday January 6, 2008
Tonight is the premiere of season five of The L Word and I can hardly wait! I'll be heading out to watch with hundreds of other lesbians at one of ... Read More

Should I Return to My Husband?

Friday January 4, 2008
From the Lesbian Life Forum: I am newly out and in a great relationship with a great girl. We are planning on moving in together and possibly even trying to ... Read More

Bill Richardson on Gay and Lesbian Issues

Wednesday January 2, 2008
One of the things we have to look forward to in 2008 is that we'll be electing a new president in the United States. The impact will be global. But ... Read More

Happy New Year!

Tuesday January 1, 2008
Welcome to 2008. I for one am looking forward to the new year. Here in Oregon, we gays and lesbians woke up to some new rights this morning. No longer ... Read More
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