I often get letters from people wanting me to help them figure out someone else. Here is an example of one I received this week: Hello, I am a 25 ... Read More

What's the best lube for use with your sex toys? Should you use lube for oral sex? If so, what kind? What's the difference between silicone and water-based lube? ... Read More

I received this email from a reader I just read your blog about female ejaculation. Except I was looking for a way to STOP the ejaculation, not stimulate it. My ... Read More

I recently heard from a teenager asking for advice about dealing with her mother. She says her mom is unhappy with her dating another girl. That may very well be ... Read More

I hear from a lot of you about sex. Questions about how to improve your sex lives, about sexually transmitted diseases, or about problems in the bedroom. You ask questions ... Read More

As someone who often gives advice, I read the advice columns in our local paper. I was interested this morning when the Ask Amy column featured a question I dealt ... Read More

Who says lesbian relationships don't last? I stumbled upon a story this morning of a lesbian couple who are celebrating 70 years together. Caroline Leto and Venera Magazzu met ... Read More

Just as the Senate moved closer to approving hate crimes legislation, a jury in Syracuse, NY (my hometown) handed down a hate crimes conviction in the murder of a transgender ... Read More

The Episcopal Church voted this week to welcome openly gay and lesbian bishops to serve. Wait, that's old news, right? Didn't openly gay V. Gene Robinson become a bishop back ... Read More

I received an action alert that the US Senate may be voting on hate crimes legislation this week. The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Prevention Act (bill number S.909) will free ... Read More

My nephew just graduated from high school and is looking forward to heading off to college at the end of next month. Right about now, he should be receiving the ... Read More

Much like New York State, gay and lesbian couples who are married in a place where same-sex marriage is legal will have their marriage recognized in Washington, DC beginning today. ... Read More

I haven't watched the new incarnation of 90210, but I might start now. Rumor has it that Rumor Willis will be playing a lesbian on the show next season. ... Read More

Yesterday the US military decided to fire Lt. Dan Choi. Even though he has given ten years of his life to the military, is a skilled Arabic translator and has ... Read More

The patrons of The Stonewall Inn were fighting back against police harassment that hot summer evening in 1969. In some ways we've come a long way since then. But I ... Read More