I need your help please.
There is a girl at work when I first saw her I thought, “yea nice.” I was talking to a friend of mine and said that this girl at work she is f------ gorgeous.
She is!!!!! I am constantly watching her at work,
I am not gay. (Well I don’t know now.) This has never happened before and I have had many boyfriends. I am 35 years old.
Help! Am I gay or not? How do you know?
Signed,
Questioning in Queens
Dear Queen:
Relax. You may just be having a girl crush.
A girl crush is when two heterosexual women find themselves attracted to one another. It’s very normal and nothing to be worried about. Of course, being a lesbian is normal too. How do you know if you are a lesbian? Here’s more about that.
