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Can lesbians find men's bodies to be attractive?

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Question: Can lesbians find men's bodies to be attractive?

Dear Lesbian Life:
I am positive that I am lesbian but I still look at men and find them attractive. What could this mean?

Answer: It could mean two things. First, it could mean that you're bisexual. You like both men and women.

Or, it can simply mean that you appreciate beauty when you see it. Being a lesbian means you want to be in intimate relationship with women. You are sexually and emotionally attracted to women. But that doesn't mean you can't appreciate a good looking man when you see one.

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