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Anti-Gay Violence -What to do if you're a victim of Anti-gay Violence
What to do if you're gay-bashed or harassed

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Hate crimes can range from gay-bashing, property damage, harassment, assault, rape or murder. Some LGBT people have come to expect or even tolerate a certain amount of violence. The fact is, hate crimes are never okay.

If you are the victim of a crime because of your real or perceived sexual orientation or gender identity, you may be the victim of a hate crime. Some states have special laws protecting against anti-gay violence, others do not. Either way, you should get support and report your crime. Here's what to do if you are the victim of an anti-gay hate crime:

  1. First, if you are in immediate danger, call 911. If you are taken to a hospital, the police may be called to take a report.

  2. If you are alone, call a friend to be with you. Call the police to report the crime. The police may or may not be trained in dealing with gays, lesbians and trans folks. Make sure you have someone with you who is going to be your support and witness the police's response.

  3. Report the crime to a local anti-violence project. They can assist you in finding services in your area.

  4. Follow up. You may feel like you just want to put everything behind you, but if you are persistent and follow up with the police and other agencies involved in your crime, you're more likely to get a prosecution.

  5. Get support. Being a victim of a crime can have a negative impact on your life. It may affect your personal sense of safety, your sleep, your relationship, your self-esteem and even your ability to work. Find a support group, therapist or church counselor to help you heal and get on with your life.
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