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Lesbian Breast Play

Some tips for lesbian breast play.

Your First Time Lesbian Sex with an Experienced Partner

You've never had lesbian sex before, but your partner has. What do you do so that you don't look inexperienced or that you don't know what you're doing?

What is Spooning?

What is spooning?

Can Lesbians Be Celibate?

Can lesbians still be lesbian if they are celibate?

Do All Lesbians Like Dildos?

Do all lesbians use dildos for strap-on sex?

Do All Lesbians Like Oral Sex?

Some women don't like oral sex, to give or receive oral sex, can they still be a lesbian or does being a lesbian mean you have to like oral sex with a woman?

What is Age of Consent?

Age of consent laws for gay and lesbian youth.

What Is Statutory Rape?

What Is Statutory Rape and how Does It apply to Lesbian/Bisexual Relationships?

My Girlfriend Watches Straight Porn, Does She Want a Penis?

If your girlfriend watches straight porn, does that mean she would rather be with a man?

Sexual Frustration around Not finding G-Spot?

G-spot stimulation can result in an amazing orgasm and ejaculation. But what if you can't find her g-spot?

Sexually Incompatible Couple

Can a couple who is sexually incompatible make it? If one likes penetration and the other does not, will this relationship work?

Lube for Lesbians - The Best Lubricants for Lesbian Sex

Ever wonder what is the best lube for certain sexual situations? We had a sexuality expert help us figure out what are the best lubes for lesbian sex, whether you're having oral, anal, manual or using sex toys.

Can You Get HIV or STD if Neither Person Has it?

Can lesbians, gay men or straight couples catch HIV or an STD if neither person has HIV or an STD?

Can Lesbian Bed Death Be Cured? What Advice Do You have For Couples …

What advice would you give to a lesbian couple who is not having sex? Can lesbian bed death be cured? If so, how?

Lesbians: Are You Okay with Your Partner Masturbating?

What do you think? Is it okay for someone to masturbate when they are in a relationship?

Is it okay to masturbate when you are in a relationship?

If you're in a relationship, is masturbation okay? What if your partner gets jealous or insecure? How should lesbians handle masturbation when they are in relationships?

Butch Lesbians - Do You Like to Be Touched Sexually by Your Partner

Do butch lesbians like to be touched sexually? Weigh in with your opinion.

Will Using a Dildo Make her Want Men?

One lesbian is worried that her partner will cheat on her with a man if they introduce a dildo into their sex lives.

Six Ways to Kill Your Sex Life

Some people assume that once you’re in a good and healthy relationship, that your sex life will remain great through out the relationship. Our sexual connection, like other aspects of our relationships will normally ebb and flow. There will be times when you’re all over each other and time when your passion will decrease. Want to keep your sex life alive and vibrant, here are some …

Do Butch Women Like to Be Touched Sexually?

What do butch lesbians like to do in bed? Is it true butches do not like to be touched sexually?

Is it Okay to Ask Your Girlfriend to Shave?

Is it Okay to Ask Your Girlfriend to Shave her pubic hair?

Restore Passion to Your Relationship - Get the Passion Back in Your Relationship

Lesbian Bed Death is almost a cliche. But restoring passion to your relationship can be done.

Does Desire for Penetration Mean She'd Rather be with a Man?

If she wants me to penetrate her, does that mean she would rather be with a man and want a penis? A lesbian sex question.

Make Love to a Woman with Your Hands

Our hands are the best sexual tools. Learn how to use your hands to give your lover a great hand job.

What does it mean to be a multi-orgasmic?

What does it mean to be a multi-orgasmic lesbian?

Lesbian Sex Drives: When Your Sex Drives Are Not the Same

You want sex three times a week. She wants it three times a year. You both love each other and want to stay together, but this issue of different sex drives seems to be driving you apart. Can your relationship be saved?

Kiss Like a Pro

Kissing is essential. Do you want to learn to kiss better? Lesbian Life offers expert advice on the fine art of kissing and how to improve your kissing skills.

Tracy Bartlett

Tracy Bartlett is a sex educator.

Female Ejaculation without G-Spot Stimulation

Can you female ejaculate without stimulating the G-Spot? Yes you can!

Best Porn by and for Lesbians

When it comes to pervy pleasures, it s a pretty well-known fact that ladies tend to be less visual than men. There s an endless supply of smut for men of every fetish and orientation, and very, very little for us girls. In most mainstream sex shops, the lesbian section features uber femme bleach blond straight girls having sex exactly the way...

Should I Perform Oral Sex on my Stud Partner?

A femme in a relationship with a stud is feeling apprehensive about performing oral sex on her stud partner.

Insincere Lesbian Sex - Lesbians with Low Sex Drives

If you have a low sex drive and your partner has a high sex drive, is it insincere to have sex with her when you don't really want it? Should you initiate sex with your partner even if you're not in the mood?

Lesbian Low Sex Drive - Lover with Low Sex Drive

One partner has a low sex drive and the lack of sex is wrecking havoc on their relationship.

Young Couple with Sex and Intimacy Issues

You wouldn't think a couple in their early 20s would be having sex problems. But actually, it can happen at any age. I recently heard from one young lesbian couple who were experiencing conflict about their sex life.

Pack a Dildo Under your Clothes

How do you go about packing, or wearing a dildo under your clothes to use for sex later. What are the steps of packing and how do you do about it?

What is Packing?

What does it mean to "pack?" What is packing for lesbians?

Sex Tips for New Lovers

If you're new to sex, or with a new lover, it may be hard for you to figure out what to do to please your partner. Here are some tips for new lovers to try with one another.

Why Can't I get Wet During Sex?

Vaginal Dryness, or the inability to get wet during sex can be a problem for some women. Here's what to do about vaginal dryness and how to get wet during sex.

Why Can't I have an Orgasm?

There are many reasons why you may not be able to have an orgasm. Here are some things to consider if you're having trouble reaching an orgasm.

Lesbian Bedroom Problems

One woman wants to know how to help her and her lesbian lover have better sex in the bedroom. How do you help a lesbian bedroom problem?

Lesbian Strap on Question - Double Penetration

I have a fantasy I am curious to try. Is it possible to strap on a dildo and be on top of a woman who also has a dildo? Can both perform with the dildos in each other’s vaginas?

Felice Newman Responds - Lesbian Sex Book Author Reacts to Dad's Claims

Felice Newman, author of The Whole Lesbian Sex Book responds to a dad who claims his sons had "many sleepless nights" after seeing the Whole Lesbian Sex book on the library shelves.

How Does a Lesbian Lose Her Virginity?

How does a lesbian lose her virginity? What does virginity mean for lesbians?

I'm Newly Out and Haven't Had an Orgasm

How come I haven't had an orgasm and my partner has? Can you help me figure out how to have an orgasm?

Lesbian Sex Question: What is Lesbian Sex?

Felice Newman, author of The Whole Lesbian Sex Book answers another lesbian sex question, this one is very basic: What is lesbian sex?

Frequently Asked Questions About Lesbian Sex

You've got questions about lesbian sex. We've got answers!

Her First Tme: First Time Lesbian Sex Tips

Is it your first time for lesbian sex? Not sure what to do with your female lover for the first time? Try these tips.

First Time Lesbian Sex: Questions and Answers

When you are going to have lesbian sex for the first time, getting the answers to your questions is important. Here is one lesbian's question and the answer to help make her first time smoother.

Can You Help My Lesbian Sex Life?

My lesbian partner and I have not had sex in some time. Can you help us get our sex life back? We seem to be suffering from lesbian bed death. Is there a cure for lesbian bed death?

Safer Sex Tips for Lesbian and Bisexual Women

If you are a woman who has sex with other women, these safe sex tips will help protect yourself and your partners from sexually transmitted diseases and HIV/AIDS.

Can you get HIV or STD if you get on top of a woman?

How can lesbians get HIV/STD? How can lesbians protect themselves from HIV/STDs?

What is Lesbian Bed Death?

Learn about Lesbian Bed Death and how to prevent it and cure it.

How to Cure Lesbian Bed Death and Keep Passion Burning

Is your lesbian bed dead? Have you and your partner stopped having sex? How can you get the fire burning in the bedroom again? Here are some tips for curing lesbian bed death.

Lesbians and Herpes

Are lesbians at risk for herpes? What can you do to protect yourself and your partner from oral and genial herpes? Here are some tips for lesbians to prevent the spread of the herpes virus.

Do lesbians need to worry about human papillomavirus or HPV?

HPV or human papillomavirus is a sexually transmitted disease that lesbians can get. HPV can lead to cervical cancer, so knowing the facts is important.

We're monogamous, do we have to practice safe sex?

Do lesbians in momogamous relationships have to worry about safe sex, HIV or STDs?

What is a Dental Dam?

What exactly is a dental dam and what does it have to do with lesbian sex?

How to Buy a Dildo or Strap-On

If you want to use a dildo and do not know where to start, this how-to article will help you pick out the right size and material for you and your sexual partner.

Use a Dildo for Strap-on Sex

Lesbians who want to experiment with sex toys often like to try dildos. Here are some tips for using a dildo for strap-on sex for lesbians.

Strap On Question

When you use a dildo or strap-on protect yourself and your partner from sexually transmitted diseases, including HIV and AIDS. Here's how.

How Do I Please a Butch Lover?

How do you please a butch lesbian lover? What is she does not want to be touched or is stone butch? Here are some ideas of ways to please a butch lesbian lover.

How to Make Oral Sex Better

Here are some quick tips to making oral sex, or Cunnilingus, more enjoyable for you and your partner.

Lesbian Sex Question: What Can I do to Really Turn her on?

A lesbian wrote and wanted to know what she could do to really satisify her lover.

What are Kegels?

Kegels can help improve your sex life and prevent incontinence. Here's some information about kegel exercises.

Sexing a married woman: Lesbian Advice Needed

She wants to have sex with her married friend. How does this lesbian make the first move? And more importantly, should she?

Lesbian Sexual Fantasies

What do lesbians fantasize about? Are you and your partner looking for a new sexual fantasy to try out. Here are some top lesbian sexual fantasies.

Lesbian Pubic Hair

Should you shave your pubic hair?

Cunnilingus Question

I have a hard time performing cunnilingus on my partner (oral sex.) Can you help our sex life?

Lesbian Sex Question: How do I please my soft butch lover?

What would you do it your lesbian lover suddenly told you that she did not enjoy sex with you? That's what happened to "Baffled." Here's some help for her lesbian sex dilemma.

Lesbian Sex Question: I Feel Like I have to Pee

Lesbian Sex Question: I feel like I need to pee during sex and it's ruining my sex life. Can you help me with this problem of having to urinate during sex?

Prevalence of Bisexuality and Lesbianism in the U.S.

What percentage of the population is lesbian or bisexual? New study of sexual behavior by the Centers for Disease Control says lesbianism is more prevelent than previously thought.

Lesbian Sex Question: Different Sex Drives

A common issue in lesbian relationships is when one partner has a greater sex drive than the other. This lesbian sex dilemna must be dealt with with tact and understanding.

Lesbian Orgasm Problems

What do you do when your or your female partner has trouble coming, or orgasming? Trouble with orgasm can affect your whole sexual relationship. Here's some advice for women with orgasm problems.

Lesbian Sexual Fantasy Sex Question

How much do your fantasies play into your sexual orientation? If you sleep with women and fantasize about men, are you really a lesbian?

Stone Butch Lesbian

What exactly is a stone butch lesbian? Here's the definition of "Stone Butch."

Pillow Queen

Here is the definition of "Pillow Queen."

How to Clean your sex toys: dildos and vibrators

Here's some info on how to keep your sex toys clean and working properly. How to care for your dildo and vibrators.

Lesbian Sex Questions Answered by Sexuality Expert and Author Felice Newman

Where do you turn when you have a question about lesbian sex? To the person who wrote the book on it, of course! Felice Newman, author of The Whole Lesbian Sex book answers your questions about lesbian sex and sexuality.

Lesbian Sex Question: How do I use a dildo?

Felice Newman, author of The Whole Lesbian Sex Book answers another lesbian sex question, this one is, "How do I use a dildo or strap-on?"

Lesbian Sex Question: Stone Butch?

Felice Newman, author of The Whole Lesbian Sex Book answers another lesbian sex question, this one from a stone butch lesbian about her aversion to touch.

Lesbian Sex Question: Can all women ejaculate?

Here's a lesbian sex question for lesbian sex expert Felice Newman, Author of the Whole Lesbian Sex Book: Please tell me more about female ejaculation.

Lesbian Sex Question: Tribadism

Here's a lesbian sex question for lesbian sex expert Felice Newman, Author of the Whole Lesbian Sex Book: What are the steps of tribadism?

Lesbian Sex Question: Something New to Try?

When you and your partner do the same sexual acts over and over, things can get boring. Lesbian Sex Expert, Felice Newman, answers the lesbian sex question: How do I spice up my sex life?

Lesbian Sex: Fisting Emotional Response

Trying a new sex act can be an emotional experience. For women or lesbians, trying something as intense as fisting can bring up emotions we did not expect. Lesbian Sex Expert Felice Newman answers one woman's question about fisting and the emotions after.

How to: Fisting

Fisting is the act of inserting your whole hand into a woman's vagina. This article will give you step-by-step instructions for how to safely fist with your partner.

What is Tribadism

Tribadism is a popular way for lesbians to have sex.

How to turn a latex glove into a safer sex barrier

These simple steps will turn a latex glove into a barrier to protect you and your partner during oral sex.

Cunnilingus: Oral Sex for Women

For women who want sexual advice on how to make love to another woman, About Sexuality Guide Anne Semans offers these tips on Cunnilingus or Oral Sex for Women.

Safer Sex Question

Do lesbians need to worry about safer sex and AIDS?

What are lubricants for?

Learn how lube can make sex more enjoyable.

Is Anal Sex Dangerous?

Your questions about anal sex answered.

Can She Really Be a Lesbian if She likes Anal Sex?

Can she really be a lesbian if she likes anal sex the best?

Jealous of My Girlfriend's Vibrator

Her girlfriend can only come with the assistance of a vibrator and she is not happy about this. Can their relationship be saved?

How to Find Your G-Spot

How to find your G-spot.

Five Good Reasons for Lesbians to Use Sex Toys

"We don't need sex toys," you might say. "Our sex life is great without them." If this is you, I'm not here t

Can You Reach an Orgasm with Oral Sex?

Lesbian Sex Question: Can you reach an orgasm with oral sex?

How to Shave Your Pubic Area for Sex

Women: how to shave your pubic area for sex.

How to Talk Dirty to Your Lover

How to talk dirty to your lesbian lover.

Lesbian Sex After Menopause

For lesbian women, how to keep your sexual desire active during menopause.

How to Buy a Vibrator

What to look for when buying a vibrator.

For Lesbians - Five Reasons to Have Sex

Sex is good for you. It boosts your immune system, your mental health and physical health. In case you needed any more excuses, here are five reasons for lesbians to have sex tonight. ?

Tips for Lesbians on How to Masturbate

A few tips on how to masturbate for lesbians.

How to Introduce Sex Toys to Your Partner

If you're curious about sex toys and want to bring them into your bedroom, how do you bring that topic up with your partner? Or maybe you've got a toy you want to introduce her to, but are not sure how to do it or how she'll react. Here are some tips for bringing sex toy into your sex life.

Exploring BDSM

An introduction to the principles of BDSM.

Best Lesbian Sex Books

Lesbian sex books are not just for the newly out lesbian or bisexual woman. No matter how long you've been out and how much experience you have,...

Who do Some Women Cry After Sex?

Why do some people cry after having an orgasm?

Tips for Lesbian Role Play

Some tips and ideas for lesbian role playing.

How To Ask Your Partner to Get Tested for STDs

How to talk to your partner about getting tested for sexually transmitted diseases.

What is a Top?

When a lesbian says she is a top, what does it mean?

What is a bottom?

In lesbian sex, what does it mean to be a bottom?

BDSM Starter Kit

Curious about how to get started with BDSM or sadomasochism? Learn the basics and how to get your lover involved with S/M.

Will a lesbian's hymen break the first time she has sex?

Will a lesbian's hymen break during her first sex the same way a heterosexual woman's would?

What should a Femme know about strap-on sex?

A femme wants to know what she should expect for the first time having dildo strap-on sex with her new stud partner.

Top Lesbian Sex Myths

Like any minority group, there are plenty of myths and stereotypes about lesbians. Here we take a look at and break down some of the biggest myths about lesbian sex and sexuality.

Lesbian Sex and Disability

A discussion about sex and disability for lesbians and the opportunity to share sex tips for lesbians with disabilities.

Lesbians with Disabilities Sex Tips

It's a myth that lesbians with disabilities don't have sex or don't want sex. If you or your partner is disabled, what accommodations have you made to enjoy sex? Share with us.

Best Lesbian Erotica 2011

The Best Lesbian Erotica of 2011.

Getting Back in the Saddle - Sex Again after a Long Absence

If it's been a while since you were sexually intimate with someone, you might be nervous about your performance. Here are some tips for getting back into a sexual groove after a period of abstinence.

How to Have Quiet Sex

The Art of Quiet Sex - How to Have Lesbian Quiet Sex.

Am I Unisex or Asexual?

A young woman wonders if she is asexual or unisex or lesbian.

Lesbian Sex in a Bathtub

The art of seduction in a bathtub. How to please your lesbian lover in the bath or shower.

Sex Positions for Cunnilingus

Different sex positions for lesbian oral sex.

What will she feel when she wears a dildo?

What will she feel when she wears a dildo? What does the penetrating partner feel during strap-on sex? Does she receive any pleasure?

All About Play BDSM or Sex Play Parties

Do you have an interest in sex or BDSM play parties? Learn more about adult play parties, including how to find one and how to join in.

When Should you Tell a Partner about an STD?

When is the right time to tell a partner that you have a sexually transmitted disease?

How to Tell Your Partner You have a Sexually Transmitted Disease

If you have a sexually transmitted disease like HIV, herpes or HPV it's important to tell your partner. Here's how to tell your partner you have a STD.

What Not to Do in Bed for Lesbians

Sex tips for lesbians- what not to do in bed.

A Survey of US Sexual Activity Report

A new survey of sexual behavior in the United States gives a glimpse into how many people are lesbian, gay bisexual in the US.

Ten Tips for Better Lesbian Sex

Ten tips for lesbian couples to have better sex.

Tips for Lesbian Oral Sex

Tips for new lesbians and first time lesbian oral sex.

Why Lesbians Should Get Tested for STDs

Should lesbians be tested for sexually transmitted diseases and infections? Five reasons lesbians should be tested for STDs and STIs.

Gush: The Official Guide to the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation

Gush: The Official Guide to the G-Spot and Female Ejaculation is an sex-ed film that teaches women how to find their G-Spot and how to female ejaculate.

Ways to Green Up Your Sex Life

How can you bring an earth-friendly environmental approach to your lesbian sex life? Tips for lesbians to green-up their sex lives.

My Girlfriend Doesn't Like Her Clit Touched

A woman doesn't like to have her clitoris touched, so how can her partner please her?

Sexual Orientation versus Sexual Arousal or Desire

Sexual orientation, arousal and desire are related, but they are not the same thing.

New Lesbian Moms -- Sex & Intimacy After Baby

If you're a new lesbian mom, you've got a lot a changes in your life. Here's some advice about how to keep sex and intimacy alive in your lesbian relationship after childbirth.

How to Talk About Sex - For lesbians and bisexual women

Before you have sex with someone, you should talk about sex. Here are some tips about how to talk about sex with a new partner, or even one you've been with for a while.

Her Lover Might Leave Over Oral Sex Skills

If she doesn't get better at oral sex, her lover says she'll leave her. What can she do to improve her oral sex skills?

Lesbian Porn Review: Taxi Series

A review of the lesbian porn series Taxi.

Are Yeast Infections Sexually Transmitted?

Are yeast infections sexually transmitted?

What is a Clit Pump?

What is a clit pump and how is it used?

Lesbian is Afraid of Sex with Sex Toys

A young lesbian wants to better understand her fear of vaginal penetration and what she can do to overcome her fear.

A Look at Open Relationships for Lesbian and Bisexual Women

A look at polyamory and open relationships as they apply to lesbian and bisexual women.

Can this couple end their sexual rut?

A couple of young lesbians find themselves in a sexual rut. Is there a way out?

Questions Answered about Vaginism

A question and answer with an expert in Vaginism, a female sexual disorder.

Homemade Sex Toys for Lesbians

Don't have a lot of cash to buy expensive sex toys? Here are a few ideas for those who want to make their own homemade sex toys.

All About Harnesses

What to look for when purchasing a harness for sex with a dildo.

Lesbian Hook-Ups

Sometimes you just want to have sex or hook-up with someone without getting into a relationship. Here are some tips for ethical lesbian hook-ups.

What Should You Know Before You Buy Your First Sex Toy

What should you buy for your first lesbian sex toy? Should you buy a vibrator or dildo and what features should you look for in buying your first lesbian sex toy?

A Review of The Lesbian Porn Series: Crash Pad

A review of the Crash Pad series of lesbian porn.

What Do Lesbians Do in Bed?

What do lesbians do in bed? A study of lesbian behavior reveals what lesbians really do in bed.

Sexy Holiday Gifts for Lesbians

Don't put these sexy lesbian gifts under the tree, put them under her pillow.

Humor in the Bedroom with Karen Williams

Laughing can be sexy. Lesbian comedian Karen Williams discusses ways to bring humor into your bedroom.

I think I have Penis Envy

A lesbian wants to penetrate her partner and is jealous of men who have penises.

Use it or Lose It

If you want to keep your sex life healthy and vibrant, there's one good way to do that--keep having sex.

How do You Keep Sex Alive in a Relationship?

Advice columnist Emily Wilcox answers the question, How to Keep Sex Alive for Lesbian Couples.

Why Don't Lesbians Have Sex with Men if They like Dildos?

If lesbians like strap-on sex with dildos, why don't they just have sex with men?

Sex expert Emily Morse on Kegel Exercises

Sex expert Emily Morse talks about lesbians and kegel exercises and her new app Kegel Camp.

Tips for Sleeping Together

A good relationship often depends on how well you sleep together. Here are some suggestions about how you and your partner can get a better night's sleep.

Traveling with Sex Toys

Traveling with sex toys- how to take your toys with you on vacation.

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