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Is my girlfriend really a lesbian if she really enjoys anal penetration?

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Question: Is my girlfriend really a lesbian if she really enjoys anal penetration?
Is my girlfriend really a lesbian if she really enjoys anal penetration over other forms of sex?
Answer: I don’t know if your girlfriend is really a lesbian. Have you asked her how she identifies? Some lesbians love anal sex. Others don’t care for it at all.

I’d like to clear up a myth about what kinds of sex lesbians do and don’t like to have. Believe it or not, not all lesbians like oral sex. Some lesbians love penetration, either vaginally, orally or anally with a dildo, but they would never want a real penis. Some lesbians like breast play, others don’t want their breasts touched at all. Every person’s sexual preferences are different.

A lesbian is a woman who is sexually and romantically attracted to other women. What defines a lesbian is not what part of her body she wants stimulated, but by who.

Personally, I think we all need to relax more about what is and is not acceptable in the bedroom. Some lesbians like watch gay porn, enjoy penetration, or role play a different gender. It doesn't mean they're not really lesbians. It just means that these things turn them on.

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