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Will Using a Dildo Make her Want Men?

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Question: Will Using a Dildo Make her Want Men?

My Partner and I have been together for over a year. When we get intimate, I know that she wants to try new things and toys. She wants to try using a dildo but she's scared that I will like it and try to find the real thing behind her back. I would never think about cheating on her though. What kind of toys should we use to spice up our sex life without her having the fear that I'm going to find someone else to fulfill my needs?
Scared of Silicone

Answer:

Dear Scared

Thanks for writing in and exposing one of the biggest myths about strap-on dildo sex. Many lesbians enjoy penetration -- whether from fingers, hands or sex toys. Penetration can be pleasurable no matter what your sexual orientation and desiring something inside you does not make you straight or bisexual. It certainly doesn’t mean you will cheat on her.

Many women who have no interest in men love to have strap-on sex with their female partner. So go get a dildo and have fun!

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