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Best Lesbian Sex Books

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Lesbian sex books are not just for the newly out lesbian or bisexual woman. No matter how long you've been out and how much experience you have, there is bound to be something you can learn from one of these lesbian sex books.

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book: A Passionate Guide for All of Us by Felice Newman

Whole Lesbian Sex Book
Cleis Press

Felice Newman has written the definitive manual for lesbian sex. Within its pages you'll find chapters that tell you everything from basic anatomy and orgasm, to the ins and outs of masturbation, penetration and imagination.  You can read little snipets from others about their desires and sexual practices. But most importantly, The Whole Lesbian Sex Book provides clear and well-researched information for just about every lesbian sexual desire.

The Whole Lesbian Sex Book is easy to pick up and browse through, bookmark and leave by the bedside table. It's a must-have for every lesbian household.

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The Ultimate Guide to Strap-on Sex by Karlyn Lotney

The Ultimate Guide to Strap-On Sex by Karlyn Lotney
Cleis Press

Karlyn Lotney is also known as Fairy Butch, the lesbian sex columnist in Curve magazine. If you are interested in exploring strap-on sex with a harness and dildo, this is THE reference guide. Originally published in 2000, some of the product descriptions are dated, but the information on technique is timeless.

Box Lunch: The Layperson's Guide to Cunnilingus by Diana Cage

Box Lunch by Diana Cage
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What lesbian doesn't need to master the fine art of eating out? In Box Lunch: The Layperson's Guide to Cunnilingus,  Diana Cage teaches you the treasures your tongue can uncover under the covers. With sections about technique, positions, health concerns and even anilingus. This is one book you won't regret shelling a few clams out for.

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The Straight Girl's Guide to Sleeping with Chicks by Jen Sincero

The Straight Girl's Guide to Sleeping with Chicks
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Okay, I know. The straight girls book. But if you can get past the straight girl references, this book actually has some great information and sex tips. It's written in a light tone that doesn't take itself too seriously. If you've only ever been with men, this is a good book to talk you through your first girl-on-girl action.

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Sexual Intimacy for Women: A Guide for Same-Sex Couples by Dr. Glenda Corwin

Sexual Intimacy for Women: A Guide for Same-Sex Couples
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Sexual Intimacy for Women is written in just about the opposite tone of The Straight Girl's Guide. This isn't a book about hooking up, it's about creating and maintaining long term healthy sexual relationships. With tips on dealing with issues like infidelity, different sex drives and sex after menopause, Dr. Glenda Corwin gives us a book for couples who are in it for the long-haul.

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The Survivor's Guide to Sex

The Survivor's Guide to Sex Book by Staci Haines
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The full title is The Survivor's Guide to Sex: How to Have an Empowered Sex Life After Childhood Sexual Abuse by Staci Haines. And the title says it all. Although this book is not specifically for lesbians, it is lesbian-friendly. This is a great book for survivors and their partners and the only one I know of like it.

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The Guide to Lesbian Sex by Jude Schnell

The Guide to Lesbian Sex by Jude Schnell
Hylas Press
For those of you who prefer less words and more photos, The Guide to Lesbian Sex by Jude Schnell will be your cup of tea. Light on information, but heavy on images, browse through this with your lover and pick a position that appeals to you and get going.

On Our Backs Guide to Lesbian Sex

On Our Backs Guide to Lesbian Sex
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On Our Backs was a lesbian sex magazine published in the 1990s. It's since gone out of business, but you can still get a copy of this fantastic book that covers everything from kissing to kinky.
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The G-Spot: The Good Vibrations Guide by Cathy Winks

The G-Spot
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This is another book that is not specifically for lesbians, but The G-Spot is essential reading for any woman who wants to learn more about her G-Spot and female ejaculation.

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