How did you come out to your parents?
She forced me to date her, I was homophobic. I was afraid, she made me comfortable. She told everyone, I was in the closet. My dad asked me if I wanted to be a boy, I told him "I don't know". I do know, I'm meant to be a boy, but I couldn't date a straight-girl.. I'm gay.. and dad's o.k. with it.. too comfortable, is turned-on by it.. Mom's trying to accept it, but I can see in her eyes she's uncomfortable when I hold my gf's hand. They'll be fine, but how will I give my parents what they want? A grandchild, a son-in-law, and a daughter who is NORMAL. I didn't ask to be this way, I was born this way I told them.
What did you say?
Are you like this because your sister is a lesbian? I said "No, I am me.. not my sister.. I like woman, I want to like men, but I'm too lost and confused when I'm with one.. I don't enjoy being with a man. Men are friends, when I try to date one, I see them like a brother, and doing things with them feels wrong... to me. I'm sure if the lord is forgiving and accepting as his rep. He'd accept and respect my choice. Because I don't want to lie to myself and say I like men, just for others. Wasn't it you who told me to do what I felt comfortable with? This is my lifestyle because this is who I am, I didn't choose this lifestyle, this lifestyle chose me."
Advice
- Be honest with yourself, before your honest with others. ONly you know who you are, and don't be afraid to change your mind, It's your life. When love finds you,don't run away just because they are the same sex, or even the opposite.. you may suprize yourself.
