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Every Time I Saw Her My Crush Got Bigger

Share Your Story: How did you meet your partner?

From InloveForever619

Where I met my partner?

She's older then me and her high school got out earlier than my middle school. It was about 3 years ago, I was skipping school with my best friend who at the time, had a crush on my girlfriend. My girl paid no mind to her. That day my best friend and I went to her house to hang out with her. Turns out, my girl, had her eye set on me as I did on her. She wrote me a note and we were just back on forth on it but I decided I wouldn't be that messed up to my best friend and told her I couldn't keep going on with that.

How we fell in love

We saw each other a couple of times, and it seemed like every time I saw her, my crush got bigger. She always had an attempt to talk to me, and it never worked out.

Haha, It's a funny story how we got together. Her sister and I, were having problems and could not stand each other. Then all of a sudden, we decide to drop it and we became pretty good friends. One day while we were talking she mentions her sister, and she said "I think my sister likes you". I was like, wait.. Why? So she starts telling me how she was talking about me and said she always had a crush on me and this and that. So I was like okay give me her number. My girl and I began to talk and every time we did, I just had THE biggest smile on my face and my heart would race and everything felt so amazing, but one problem was she had a girlfriend:(

Soon after we started talking, my girlfriend broke up with her, and she became MINE! Everything would just feel so perfect with her. After a while, I began to fall for her and went through so much just to be with her. We both fought to be together and we've never let anything pull us apart. We're both in this together and we know we want this for the rest of our lives. I know she's the one for me. She's my best friend! She's always there for me as I am for her, she never lets me hit the ground, I never get tired of her being around, she makes me happy no matter what, and the love I got for her I know will never in a million years fade. I fell for my wife, and I can't ever fall out!

Advice

  • If you know for sure you really like girls, don't get with a confused girl. She'll end up hurting you! (I know from experience)
  • When you find that one girl that you know could really be someone special, don't give her up for anything.
  • Come out at the right time, and when you're with a good girl; It won't be easy, and it'll take a while for acceptance but do what it takes to be happy!
  • Don't be scared to be who you are!!

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