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I Met Her At School

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From Shelby102008

Where I met my partner?

I met her at school. I was a sophomore and she was a freshman. A mutual friend came to me and Karma followed her. cc asked if i was bi or lesbian and i told them bi. Karma kinda winked at me and they both walked away.

How we fell in love

I saw her in the hall and gave her a note asking her if she was bi or lesbian and I put my locker number on it and she wrote back. We wrote notes for a couple of days and she gave me her cell number and we started to talk every night. The at Powder Puff Parade we had a mini date if you will. That night I was afraid to kiss her so I asked for a hug instead and we had a early release one day so my best friend and I went to Karma's house and Karma and I kissed for the first time on 10/17/08. We started dating on 10/20/08. She turned me down a few times but I was persistent and it was worth the wait. We are taking a break right now because I was a jerk but I'm hopeful about getting her back.

Advice

  • Stay hopeful
  • Let them know that you're interested
  • Don't give up right away
  • Take your time getting to know each other
  • Be completely honest
  • Tell them you love them even if they don't say it back right away but only say it if you really and truthfully mean it
  • Don't search for love let it find you!
  • Remember that your first love is always going to remain a big part of your life.
  • Tell her how you feel and be open with her
  • Be sensitive to her feelings even if you don't agree or understand
  • Don't try and make her jealous

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