Where I met my partner?
I met my current girlfriend on OkCupid.com and we started emailing back and forth because of similar interests and personal issues.
How we fell in love
The first time I met her in person, I was extremely attracted to her. The more we talked the more I liked her. Our first "hanging out session" turned into more of a date. I took her to dinner, we came back and watched a movie together in my bed and before the end of the night I asked her if I could kiss her. Before we knew it we were making love - slow, sensual, intimate, and very hot. It was her first real sexual experience with a woman and it was my first meaningful sexual experience with a woman. We've been together for almost two months now and I am 100% sure that I am falling in love for the first time in my life. We have this chemistry and intimacy that I have never shared with anyone I've ever been with. Our sex life is incredible and she is starting to open up and trust me more in the bedroom. I want her to experience truly meaningful sex and intimacy. She is seven years younger and I feel like I teach her so much about love and intimacy. I have such a deep admiration and respect for her. I feel this unbearable need to take care of her in every respect. She's told me many times she is not used to being so well taken care of. It's the most intimate and genuinely special relationship I've ever been in. I don't know what the future holds for us but whatever happens all I know is that there is not one minute of time we have spent together that I will ever regret. I want to wake up to her beautiful face every morning for the foreseeable future. It's a bit scary because I have only ever had heterosexual relationships. I am very open about my sexuality but I do know society can be judgmental and may look down on us because it is unconventional for two women to be together. The sad part is that people will look down on us even if we have the most loving and stable relationship simply because they do not understand bisexuality. I tell her constantly that she is my missing piece - the one person I have met that I feel responsible for taking care of and whose happiness matters more to me than anything else in the world and the one person I want to be with no matter the obstacles we have to overcome in order to do so.
Advice
- always follow your heart. do not let others chase you away from your happiness. fall in love with someone for who they are, not because of what sex they are. Love that person with all your heart and take care of them the way you would want to be taken care of. sacrifices are essential to lasting love.
