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Finding Vendors for Your Lesbian Wedding After you and your partner decide to get married, next comes the joy of planning the ceremony. Depending on the kind of wedding you choose to have, you could be dealing with rental halls, caterers, florists, bakeries, photographers, DJ’s or musicians and dress shops. At every one of these businesses, you may be forced to come out and potentially deal with a less than welcoming environment. Finding good vendors can be stressful enough without having to worry about homophobia. How should you proceed?
© Photo by Kathy Belge Tuesday May 13, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) Where to Meet Lesbians
Dear Stuck on Straight Girls,Your first problem is falling in love with straight girls. This can only lead to heart ache. You need to broaden your horizons, get out there and start meeting real lesbians. Even if it takes you a while to meet someone you're interested in dating, it will be good to make friends who are lesbians. They can introduce you to their friends and most importantly, it will take your mind off these straight girls that seem to be ruining your life.So, how do you go about it?Monday May 12, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) Dating Tips for Lesbian Moms Happy Mother's Day! I attended a baby shower yesterday for a lesbian mom. Family and friends all gathered to eat brunch and celebrate the new baby girl that will soon join us. Although this friend happens to be in a relationship, I did meet one lesbian mom there who was single. Her child is young and she said she doesn't have the time or energy to date. That might be her choice, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you're a single lesbian mom, no matter what age your children, if you want to get out there and start dating, there's no reason you shouldn't. But where to meet suitable people? What do you tell the kids? How do you handle overnight visits? Here are my Dating Tips for Lesbian Moms.
Also today, I thought I'd share with you some of my favorite blogs by lesbian moms. Happy Mother's Day and enjoy. Best blogs for lesbian moms:© Kathy Belge Sunday May 11, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) The Art of Kissing I love kissing. When my partner and I first got together, we decided we would wait to have sex. Those early long make out sessions are still some of my favorite memories. Sometimes I think kissing is a lost art. Making out is fun and it doesn't have to lead to anything more. Kissing can and should be a goal in itself.
I asked my friend, sex educator Tracy Bartlett to share some of her professional knowledge of kissing with us. Tracy gives workshops all over the country on sex topics, and her kissing workshop is one of the most popular. How good of a kisser are you? Want to become better? Learn to kiss like a pro.
Friday May 9, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) What's the Difference between Polygamy and Polyamory? I was having drinks with a new friend the other day when she revealed to me that she is polyamorous. Currently she is involved with a woman, but in the past, she was married to a man and had female partners. I have known people involved in non-monogamous relationships before and I know that although they can be a lot of work, for some people it is the only kind of relationship that satisfies them.
Right after we had our discussion, the polygamist sect in Texas was all over the news. It got me to thinking that a lot of people probably don't realize that there is a difference between polyamory and polygamy. What is the difference between polyamory and polygamy? Is one more egalitarian than the other? Is one male dominated and the other less dependent on gender roles? Learn the BasicsPhoto by © Rodolfo Clix Wednesday May 7, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) Lesbian Movie Review: Spider Lilies If you read the movie reviews on Lesbian Life, then you know that it's rare that a movie earns a five-star rating from our movie reviewer. Well, the new lesbian movie Spider Lilies is a an exception. Our movie reviewer loved Spider Lilies for it's sensuality, beauty, story and lyricism. Spider Lilies is a new award-winning film in Mandarin with English subtitles by director Zero Chou. Find out why it won Best Feature Film at the Berlin International Film Festival and other awards. Here's our review of Spider Lilies.
© Wolfe Video Monday May 5, 2008 | permalink | comments (1) How Do I Tell Her She's Being Used?My girlfriend and I have been dating almost eight months and we both love each other dearly. She has chosen to co-parent two children with an ex, before she and I started dating, which I have no problem with. My problem is that the mother was evicted from her home and my girlfriend has allowed her and the kids to move into her spare bedroom. Sunday May 4, 2008 | permalink | comments (3) Who Owns the Word "Lesbian?" If you live in the Island of Lesbos in Greece, you're known as a Lesbian. If you're a woman who loves other women, you're known as a lesbian. Does one group have more of a right to the word than the other? A group of Greek citizens think so. They are suing a gay and lesbian group, trying to prevent them from using the word "lesbian" in the organization's title. Those suing say, the Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece, "insults the identity" of the people of Lesbos, who are also known as Lesbians. Learn more about the controversy and add your thoughts below.
More:© Konstantinos Dafalias Friday May 2, 2008 | permalink | comments (5) The Stonewall Inn and the Gay Pride MovementLast night I walked into a historic place. I'm in New York City and I was walking down Christopher Street and there it was, The Stonewall Inn. Stonewall is known as the birthplace of the modern gay rights movement. I stepped inside the small bar and immediately felt the energy of all the gay men and women for whom the bar was a refuge over the years. Especially in the 1950s and 60s, gay bars were the only place gays and lesbians could be free to be themselves. But even the gay bars were not a haven. Police would regularly raid the bars and arrest people on trumped up charges. One day in 1969 the patrons of The Stonewall Inn decided they weren't going to take the police harassment anymore. The patrons of The Stonewall Inn fought back. The resulting riot is considered the birth of the modern gay rights movement.
Thursday May 1, 2008 | permalink | comments (0) Help for Suicidal LGBT Teens Since 1987, studies has shown that LGBT youth are more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers. Despite all the progress that we have made as a culture, youth coming to terms with their sexuality still struggle with feelings of isolation, depression and fear of social stigmas. Those who are at the greatest risk of suicide are those who have never revealed their sexual orientation to anyone else.
That's the bad news. The good news is that there is help for lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans youth who feel being gay is too much of a burden to bear. The Trevor Helpline is the only national crisis and suicide prevention helpline for gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender and questioning youth. Find out more about The Trevor Project and how suicidal teens can get help.
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After you and your partner decide to get married, next comes the joy of planning the ceremony. Depending on the kind of wedding you choose to have, you could be dealing with rental halls, caterers, florists, bakeries, photographers, DJ’s or musicians and dress shops. At every one of these businesses, you may be forced to come out and potentially deal with a less than welcoming environment. Finding good vendors can be stressful enough without having to worry about homophobia.
Happy Mother's Day! I attended a baby shower yesterday for a lesbian mom. Family and friends all gathered to eat brunch and celebrate the new baby girl that will soon join us. Although this friend happens to be in a relationship, I did meet one lesbian mom there who was single. Her child is young and she said she doesn't have the time or energy to date. That might be her choice, but it doesn't have to be that way. If you're a single lesbian mom, no matter what age your children, if you want to get out there and start dating, there's no reason you shouldn't. But where to meet suitable people? What do you tell the kids? How do you handle overnight visits? Here are my
I love kissing. When my partner and I first got together, we decided we would wait to have sex. Those early long make out sessions are still some of my favorite memories. Sometimes I think kissing is a lost art. Making out is fun and it doesn't have to lead to anything more. Kissing can and should be a goal in itself.
I was having drinks with a new friend the other day when she revealed to me that she is polyamorous. Currently she is involved with a woman, but in the past, she was married to a man and had female partners. I have known people involved in non-monogamous relationships before and I know that although they can be a lot of work, for some people it is the only kind of relationship that satisfies them.
If you read the movie reviews on Lesbian Life, then you know that it's rare that a movie earns a five-star rating from our movie reviewer. Well, the new lesbian movie Spider Lilies is a an exception. Our movie reviewer loved Spider Lilies for it's sensuality, beauty, story and lyricism. Spider Lilies is a new award-winning film in Mandarin with English subtitles by director Zero Chou. Find out why it won Best Feature Film at the Berlin International Film Festival and other awards.
If you live in the Island of Lesbos in Greece, you're known as a Lesbian. If you're a woman who loves other women, you're known as a lesbian. Does one group have more of a right to the word than the other? A group of Greek citizens think so. They are suing a gay and lesbian group, trying to prevent them from using the word "lesbian" in the organization's title. Those suing say, the Homosexual and Lesbian Community of Greece, "insults the identity" of the people of Lesbos, who are also known as Lesbians.
Since 1987, studies has shown that LGBT youth are more likely to attempt suicide than their heterosexual peers. Despite all the progress that we have made as a culture, youth coming to terms with their sexuality still struggle with feelings of isolation, depression and fear of social stigmas. Those who are at the greatest risk of suicide are those who have never revealed their sexual orientation to anyone else.

