Today's Sexy Friday is a continuation from last week. I recently interviewed Emily Wilcox, lesbian advice columnist and author of 100 Lesbians Walk into a Bar and I asked her what the most common question she is asked by lesbians. Her answer: How to keep sex alive in a long term relationship. Here's Emily's take on this age-old lesbian problem: How to Keep Sex Alive.

Keep the conversation going and share your tips about keeping sex and love alive.

They're twin sisters, one who is out as a lesbian and married to her partner. They've had a Billboard 100 top hit and have performed with the likes of Pitbull and Daddy Yankee. So, what's next for pop duo Nina Sky? They're following in the footsteps of pop greats Katy Perry and Lady Gaga by performing at The Dinah 2012. The two are excited to play in front of this mostly lesbian audience and took a few moments from their tour to talk to Lesbian Life about their rise to fame and what they're hoping for as headliners at the biggest lesbian party in the nation: Lesbian Life Interviews Nina Sky.

A recent study found that 30% of women in their 40s and 50% of women in their 50s hadn't had sex in over a year. Many of these women were dissatisfied with their sex lives. In fact, one of the issues I hear the most about from you is the lack of sex in your lesbian relationships. What's to be done about it? Have more sex. That's right, maintaining sexual activity, whether with yourself or with a partner is one of the best ways to ensure that your libido will remain strong as you age.

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For the past five years About.com has run a Readers' Choice Awards contest. This year I've decided to join in and see what some of your favorite things are. We are now taking nominations for your favorite lesbian musician or band, novel or memoir, lesbian movie, Twitter feed, blog, vacation spot, web series and reality TV star. Nominations are open until February 15th. Then the finalists will be chosen and voting will open on February 22nd. The first Lesbian Life Readers' Choice Awards winners will be announced on March 30, 2012. Stop in an nominate your favorites.