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By Kathy Belge, About.com Guide to Lesbian Life since 2003

Best Lesbian Porn: By and For Lesbians

Wednesday March 19, 2008
I often hear from people who want true lesbian porn, not stuff made by and for men. Try to google "lesbian porn" and you might be disgusted by what comes up: lots of sites by and for men with women who most likely are not lesbians and probably are skinny and blonde. I understand that not everyone is into pornography or erotica, but for those of you who are, we've done some research and come up with a diverse list of lesbian and queer-friendly lesbian porn DVDs and websites. Here are our picks for Top Lesbian Pornography sites and DVDs.
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Comments
March 20, 2008 at 1:01 pm
(1) Amethyst says:

Finally! Thank you. Its so frustrating trying to find good real lesbian porn other then this stuff for and by the man!

March 20, 2008 at 5:12 pm
(2) Mental.Gymnasticz says:

It’s about time…

March 20, 2008 at 8:31 pm
(3) mel says:

this is so weird. its like someone has been watching what i’m searching for online. i was looking forward for something like this. lol. it was only about 2 weeks ago i was looking for some real lesbian porn online. lol. so weird.

March 21, 2008 at 8:35 pm
(4) Lulu says:

YAY!!!!!!!! Thanks ever so much!!!!

March 23, 2008 at 8:14 pm
(5) Helen says:

oh thank goodness! my girlfriend and I had gone to a store, and we looked at what was labelled “lesbian porn” but i observed the women’s fingernails… OUCH!

March 30, 2008 at 7:57 am
(6) The Nurse says:

Ok so, my girlfriend and I much appreciated the list of video’s as well. So I ordered the video Coming Home, I was pleased with the prompt service I ordered the DVD last Sunday, March 23rd. It arrived March 27th, wow now thats service. My girl and I don’t live in the same city she is arriving April 5th I told her I’d wait for her to come to watch it. I guess curiosity got to me, I’ll just pop it in for a second to see a Little Snippit of the first one. So when I opened the packed I said to myself uh oh, this doesnt look very professional. I didnt want to judge a book by its cover. I popped it in the dvd player and the opening screen was hazy and unfocused. Then it went to the menu screen and NOTHING. The little cursor wouldn’t move. I tried 3 different dvd players, it would not work. I called them the next day they were very apologetic and promptly sent out a new DVD. I hope and pray this one works. I’ll keep you posted, but for 34 dollars I would expect a better quality picture, I wont order from them again. Your’s truly, an avid reader of About: Lesbian Life, The Nurse

March 31, 2008 at 6:12 pm
(7) The Nurse says:

I must respond to my prior post. I called Saturday morning March 29th, I got homme from work today March 31st and the new DVD was there. Excellent service and the DVD plays fine. I guess everyone is entitled to 1 error. I take back what I said I would definetely order from them again. Their service is great. Thank you, The Nurse, an avid About: Lesbian Life Reader.

July 14, 2008 at 2:06 pm
(8) ELOISE says:

thank you for real lesbian porn my girlfriend Chloe and i enjoyed the DVD’s

July 14, 2008 at 2:11 pm
(9) Eloise Warren says:

me and my girlfriend had a foursome with two other lesbians and we watched one of your great DVD’s while having sex

July 20, 2008 at 2:22 am
(10) nirupam sil says:

Pl senD me DVD.

September 20, 2008 at 5:00 am
(11) Geri says:

Hard to find? Really? Still?

Hope this comment will not be regarded as spam and so get deleted as it couldn’t be more relevant to the topic of this blog log.

Wherever you are in the world if you google “real lesbian porn” you will generally find our website http://www.reallesbianporn.net/on the first page – generally in the number one position. If you google “lesbian porn” you will generally find us on the first page. If not you should find us on the second page.

If you google “real lesbians porn” you will find us first page too. Just tried and we’re number one for that search term as well. It used to be that we were number one for real lesbian porn but nowhere for real lesbians porn.

It’s an important distinction “lesbians” and “lesbian” actually as the majority of women who appear in lesbian porn including the lesbian and dyke porn produced by queer women for queer women ( including the websites and videos you’ve listed Kathy )are more accurately described as bisexual than “lesbians”. Two of the women who co-founded On Our Backs magazine in the 1980’s – http://www.onourbacksmag.com/ – are bisexual dykes who are in relationships with men now. The cover girls on the website Nina Hartley and Babydoll are both bisexual pornstars. And I do mean genuinely bisexual – not just gay-for-pay porn performers.

The porn biz is full of bisexual women – on both sides of the cameras. It has been for years. Bisexual men are pretty common in gay porn as well. Christine Kessler is a female porn producer who shoots gay male porn – among other things.

Anyway our real lesbian porn site focuses on any lesbian content porn made by lesbian and bisexual women, and some porn produced by men, which is made at least as much for women as it is for men and where there is a commitment to showing real sex and real female sexual pleasure.

For those dykes who have a hang-ups about long fingernails, which you will see on Sappho’s Girls (part of CyberDyke net) for example, I have to say that long fingernails in lesbian porn doesn’t necessarily mean the women aren’t genuinely bisexual or even lesbian and aren’t having real sex. Those fingernails usually aren’t real nails – and false nails in your pussy don’t hurt at all :) Alternatively she might be a stone femme – or into a bit of pain.

Keeping an open mind will often facilitate one’s enjoyment of porn.

October 4, 2008 at 5:08 am
(12) J says:

Thanks for listing Pink & White Productions, directed by Shine Louise Houston, in your list.

For folks who want to find out about our films and our membership site CrashPadSeries.com go to our company website: http://www.pinkwhite.biz.

(The link that is currently on your list only goes to a store’s listing for one of our films.)

xo,
Pink&White Productions

June 14, 2009 at 10:41 am
(13) pamela franklin says:

I enjoy really good girl on girl video, but most of it justs turns me off because it seems the girls are just earning a paycheck and not really into it. Girlfriends has some pretty hot stuff, but even most of it seems lame.

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