Question: What will she feel when she wears a dildo?
If your partner makes love to you wearing a strap-on dildo, you might wonder what pleasure she gets out of the experience. Can she get pleasure wearing a dildo?
For many women, being on the giving end of dildo sex is not so much about their own pleasure, but about pleasing their partners. Sex is not just about your own orgasm, it is about the shared energy between two people. Some people are more givers (or tops
) and others like to receive (bottoms
). It can be quite a turn-on to look into your lover’s eyes and see her passion and excitement, the intense feeling that you are giving her. For some women, that is all they want out of sex, to know that their partner is satisfied. The biggest pleasure can be knowing that you’re pleasing your partner.
That doesn’t mean that women can’t experience physical pleasure from wearing a strap-on, though. Depending on how turned on she gets and the position of the dildo, women can and do have orgasms when penetrating their partner with a strap-on dildo. The friction from the base of the dildo or the strap can be adequate stimulation for a woman to achieve orgasm. Each woman’s anatomy is a little different and different women require different levels of friction, pressure and vibration to experience orgasm.
For those who need a little extra boost, placing a small bullet-shaped vibrator against the clitoris should do the trick. Some harnesses are designed with pouches especially for this purpose.