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How To Pack a Dildo Under your Clothes


I've decided to start "packing" to spice up my single sex life. I was wondering what the best kind of dildo is for packing. I don't want it to be too flimsy because it becomes almost impossible to work with, but I also don't want it to be too rigid because I don't wear baggy pants and I don't want everyone knowing it's there.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: Five minutes or more

Here's How:

  1. You may choose to first put on a pair of underwear to reduce the friction of the dildo and harness against your skin.
  2. Select a dildo with a base such as the Leo or Mustang.

  3. Slip the dildo into your harness. Do not tighten the straps the whole way, so the dildo is not erect under your clothing.

  4. Turn the dildo to one side and the tip is facing upward.

  5. Top it off with a tight fitting pair of briefs, boxers or a jock strap.

  6. Pull your pants on and look in the mirror. You should have a nice buldge that isn't too obvious to the casual observer.

  7. When it comes time for sex, tighten up the harness and adjust the dildo to the angle you want.


  1. Experiment with different size dildos and under garments.
  2. The fun with packing is that you're set to have penetration sex without a lot of preparation.
  3. Don't forget to cover the dildo with a condom and change it if you share with more than one partner or use it on yourself.

What You Need

  • Dildo with a base
  • Harness
  • Tight fitting underwear
  • A sense of adventure
  • Condoms
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